May 31st, 2023
Something I’m Reading
I just finished "The Healing Magic of Forest Bathing: Finding Calm, Creativity, and Connection in the Natural World” by Julia Plevin. It was really good, but a little more woo-woo than I’m used to (like asking permission from a tree, to hug a tree...that’s a little weird). But when I look at it more metaphorically, the book is just a good reminder to get into nature, exist and find peace.
Something I Photographed
Okay, maybe not something I photographed but a cool picture. I had an awesome time at the Better Life Tribe REI Summit last week. I got to record a LIVE Q&A with my good friend, David Greene.
Something I’m Excited About
I'll be speaking at the Limitless Expo in Phoenix, Arizona on Saturday, June 17th. It's an incredible event focused on financial freedom and my good buddy, Tarl Yarber (pictured above) is the mastermind behind the whole shebang. I'd love to have you there to hang out! We've got some amazing speakers lined up! We're talking legends like Robert Kiyosaki, the financial guru himself, the master negotiator Chris Voss, the brilliant Kathy Fettke, and a bunch of other experts.. Use the discount code "beardy" at checkout for 25% off your ticket. If you can't make it in person, there's a virtual ticket option too. Get all the details and grab your tickets here. But don’t wait too long, ticket prices increase on 6/3.
Something I Can Answer
I’ll be answering two questions asked by a BTB subscriber. Have a question you want me to answer? Reply to this text with your question!
Question: “How do you handle stress and pressure in high-stakes situations, and what advice would you give to others in similar circumstances?”
Handling stress and pressure in high-stakes situations is crucial for maintaining composure, making sound decisions, and achieving optimal results. Here are some strategies I employ and advice I would give:
1. Recognize and manage your stress: Self-awareness is key. Recognize the signs of stress and understand how it affects you personally. Implement stress management techniques that work for you, such as deep breathing exercises, meditation, physical activity, or taking short breaks to clear your mind. Prioritize self-care to ensure you are in the best mental and physical state to tackle challenges.
2. Break it down: When facing high-stakes situations, break the tasks or challenges into smaller, more manageable parts. This approach helps alleviate overwhelm and allows you to focus on one step at a time. Prioritize tasks based on importance and urgency to ensure a systematic and organized approach.
3. Seek support and delegate: Don't be afraid to ask for help or delegate tasks to capable team members. Surround yourself with a reliable and competent team that you can rely on during high-pressure situations. By sharing the workload and leveraging the strengths of others, you can alleviate some of the pressure and ensure better outcomes.
4. Maintain perspective and stay focused: Keep the bigger picture in mind and maintain a long-term perspective. Remind yourself of your goals and the impact of your actions beyond the immediate situation. Stay focused on the task at hand and avoid getting caught up in unnecessary distractions or negativity.
5. Learn from past experiences: Reflect on previous high-stakes situations you have encountered and consider what strategies worked well and what could be improved. Use those lessons to adapt your approach and refine your skills for future challenges. Remember, experience is a valuable teacher, and each high-pressure situation is an opportunity for growth and learning.
6. Practice self-compassion: Be kind to yourself and acknowledge that everyone faces high-pressure situations at some point. Avoid self-criticism and negative self-talk. Instead, focus on your strengths and accomplishments. Celebrate small victories along the way to boost confidence and motivation.
By implementing these strategies and adopting a proactive mindset, you can effectively handle stress and pressure in high-stakes situations. Remember, resilience is built over time, so embrace challenges as opportunities for growth and keep refining your skills for future success.
Question: "How do you analyze the local real estate market and economic conditions to inform your investment decisions?”
I look at the following:
Jobs (diversity in jobs, growth, unemployment)
Incomes
Population Growth / Trends
Population Size
Supply / Demand
Age Distribution
Landlord / Tenant Laws
Property Values
Rental Rates
Crime
Natural Disasters
Taxes and other expenses
Your level of involvement
Management options
Zoning and building regulations
I know that seems like a lot, and it is. Not everything matters equally, of course, but these all play into the decision to invest somewhere. If I had to pick a “top 3” … I’d go with Population Growth, Landlord Tenant Laws, and Supply/Demand.
Something I Recommend
Many of you know of my performance coach, Jason Drees. Jason has been my coach now for over 5 years and has helped me personally overcome some limiting beliefs, scale my business, and hit some crazy goals. The first step in hitting crazy goals is identifying them. Jason and his team are providing a complimentary impossible goal settting session – to help you uncover the impossible target you should be aiming it. Here is the link to get yours.
For my health-conscious friends (or those trying to be healthier), I’ve been using MyBodyTutor for years for accountability on my fitness and diet. These guys assign you a coach to hold you accountable, track your food, suggest exercises etc. You can check them out here.
Disclosure: “Some of the links in this post are affiliate links, which means I may earn a commission if you click on the link and make a purchase. However, please note that all opinions expressed here are my own and I only recommend products or services that I have personally used and found valuable."
Your Friend,
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